When a family member suffers from cancer, the whole family suffers. 28 February 2018.
Having a family member with a terminal disease is devastating for a family living in poverty. Many stories like this have been brought to the Mary Ward Loreto Women Advice Center of Tirana (ACT). These cases are mainly referred to us by our partner, Sue Ryder Albania Association, an NGO that supports people through the most difficult times of their lives, giving people the compassion and expert care they need.
The disease causes stress and fatigue among family members. In some cases, the members of the family have doubts about the diagnosis, unwilling to accept the truth, or families choose not to tell the truth about the disease, thinking it will perpetuate psychological and other health problems. The costs of medical treatment are unaffordable and become a source of psychosocial and economic problems and imbalance for the patient and their family.
Patients can lose their jobs, responsibilities, and this inability to help support the family brings overwhelming anxiety and nervousness to the patient. Children who are exposed to this kind of family suffering are also affected psychologically.
These families, whose members have also lost their jobs due to the need to take care of the patient, need help and support to afford the costs of medical treatment and the cost of living.
MWLW ACT, in collaboration with other partners, is addressing their needs, trying to make their time of grief easier and to help ease the pain.
The lack of sheltering and alternative support for victims of violence and human trafficking.
There is a fact that violence against women in all forms, is on the increase and cases are becoming public. Even though women are granted equal rights with men by law, they still remain exposed and submissive to men’s authority. There are many social and economic factors that lead to women remaining vulnerable. The greatest factor is the lack of shelters for women and girls at risk. This has been one of the biggest challenges faced while working with women/clients at MWL Women ACT who are at risk and need accommodation and protection.
Shelters in Albania host only victims of trafficking and domestic violence who already have the status of victim or have a protection order. This makes an issue to refer cases that do not yet obtain such status or when the protection order is not valid. Apart from this factor, even when women do have a protection order, these shelters are very often full to capacity and cannot host new cases. Therefore most of the support given by the shelters is long after the violence has happened and is proven through the courts with the police statement re the denunciation as a witness. Until then the case remains at a level of treatment and not for prevention of more harm.
Women and girls who are vulnerable to trafficking and exploitation, and need comprehensive support, have already received it at MWL Women ACT, such as awareness of the risk, advice on protection, referral to relevant services.
The economic situation enforces women and girls to remain dependent on the perpetrators. To help these women/clients at ACT, we have offered them referrals to service providers in order to gain benefits from social and economic aid, employment, psychological support, and emergency food packages in collaboration with Food Bank Albania.
Report on the work in women’s jail: The psychologist of MWL Women ACT, offering trainings and self-help group facilitation once a week.
Mary Ward Loreto has initiated a collaboration with Sole Centre who run a project in the women’s jail IEVP, Nr. 325 Ali Demi Tirane. The Sole project is for the reintegration into the community for imprisoned women. This is through developing employment skills and through human development programmes. MWL was invited to give its contribution and expertise in psychological empowerment with women inside the jail. The psychologist of MWL Women ACT is offering trainings and self-help group facilitation once a week.
Weekly training sessions and self-help groups or support groups, have started with 10 women. The main aim of these sessions is the rehabilitation of the women so they have a successful reintegration into society after their release and to enable them to live their lives in a more meaningful and a better adjusted way.
Life after a traumatic experience is never easy. For many of these women offenders, committing a crime has been a traumatic experience, and inprisonment confronts them even more with the consequences of their deeds. Furthermore prisons in Albania emphasise punishment to make up for the crime and has no sense of understanding the need for education for change. These women come from different areas of Albania with different cultures, different social issues and different approaches of facing life and problems. They have coped with different external and internal issues which led to their criminal activity and for which they were convicted. They have poor coping mechanisms therefore face them with frustration while interacting with each other.
In a two months period of time the sessions have been focused on providing an understanding of self-help groups, positive group dynamics and a sense of belonging to the group. The focus has also been on acceptance of differences and on building motivation for mutual support. These sessions offer the members a safe non-judgmental environment for self-disclosure where they can learn to explore themselves and share their stories, their feelings, and their issues. They are entering into e process of recovery and need to strengthen mutual support for each other leading to the mutual goal to help each other to cope with inprisonment during and after their sentence.
Mary Ward Loreto Women Advice Centre (ACT)
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